The Mystery Method 30
Investment
Although you may be an attractive guy with relatively high S and R value, another guy just like you could easily come along tomorrow.
In the moment, when she is intoxicated with the emotions of flirting with you and she gives you her phone number, she may have every intention of following up with you in the future. But once you are separated, memories slowly fade and new flirtations arise.
Thus, it's not enough for her to be attracted to you. She must become invested in her interaction with you. The more she is invested in her interaction with you, the more she will be motivated to get a return on that investment.
Thus, the more time she spends with you, the more money she spends on you, the more effort she exerts to get your attention or validation, the more she is emotionally and physically engaged with you, the likelier it becomes that you will eventually begin a sexual relationship with her.
What are some forms of investment?
• Emotional investment. Women are reluctant to allow themselves to become emotionally vulnerable around men of dubious intent or low S and R value. A woman knows that once she gets emotional, it becomes much more difficult to extract herself from the situation.
• Physical investment. Kissing is a bigger investment than walking arm-in-arm. Sex is the biggest investment of all.
• Time. The more time you spend together, the more invested she becomes. It takes an average of four to ten hours before sex.
• Effort. Is she chasing? People don't value that which comes too easily.
The more effort she puts in, the more invested she has become.
• Money. Did you buy her a drink, or did she buy one for your
Many of the tactics in the game are not designed to attract her, but rather to use that attraction as bait in order to get her more invested in her interaction with you. (See chapter 6 for these tactics.
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